Dear NN,

I recently started talking to a girl. The thing is I am running out of topics to discuss with her. How long can one talk about office, climate and movies? Please suggest me some topics which can help me get closer to her.
-Madai.Yan

Dear Madai.Yan,

Have you tried philosophy? You might not get response for the mails ‘How are you, where are you’ etc. But if you send generic mails like ‘There is a certain chemistry with certain people. You don’t talk to them for months together. And after that once you start talking, you felt there was no gap. But at same time, there are some people with whom you don’t feel that close as days goes by. It has nothing to do with misunderstandings or different tastes. It just doesn’t work. That is all! Biggest problem is, when you get to know 2 people at same time. And those 2 know each other as well‘ she will definitely respond. In fact she will even ask you, if you are indirectly referring to her or something. Well, I don’t think it should be tough to take it forward!