F e r r a r i on 15 Oct 2006 07:17 pm
I guess all of us would have received(and continue to receive) numerous forwards on what friendship is via mail/sms etc. Mails which contain flowers, babies, kids, animals and all sorts of things on a bedsheet background. And add to it some message like ‘Never wait for tomorrow. Tell today, at this moment, what your friend means to you yada yada’. One thing these friendly guys and girls dont realise is that many people have different mail clients. As a result, the message appears in a crazy format and all the pictures etc as a separate attachment and makes things tough to comprehend. With the introduction of orkut, this friendship menace has increased. ‘Want to be friends?’ is the mantra of the day. Infact sources say that our Maharashtra chief minister received a sms ‘Want to be friends?’ from the North Korean foreign minister, and this has terrorized the government. Thats why they are thinking of banning orkut. Ok. Let me not deviate further.
Almost all these friendship messages have a single purpose. To define what friendship is. It is like those late 90/early 2000 vijay movies (For people who dont follow tamil movies, Vijay is a tamil movie actor. He started his career acting in soft porn movies, and later moved on to preaching on the screen. He happens to be my school senior as well. Leave that. In every movie, he will define what love is. Love is not employment exchange, love is not business, love is selfless etc).
Taking things further, from my experience of having so many friends(No, not girlfriend or boyfriend. Just friends) let me try to help mankind in defining what true friendship or who a true friend is.
*True friendship is when you dont send sms like ‘Whats up?’, ‘Where are you?’ ‘Howz you?’ ‘Busy?’ etc to your friends, who are on national/international roaming.
*True friendship is when you wait with salt and knife for a friend, who is stealing mangoes from the tree
*True friendship is when someone hands you a packet of surf excel, after leaning on your shoulder with their oily head.
*True friend is someone who hands you a rupee coin, when you want to check your weight.
*True friend is someone who gifts you a claypot, that you can use while watching Surya/Asin, Vishal/Trisha movies (Eco friendly drool pot)
*True friend is someone who doesnt wake you up from sleep, to wish you Good Night!
*True friend is someone who doesnt talk to you in the restroom.
*True friend is someone who doesnt drag you to Karan johar movies
Yeah, so thats what friendship is. Want to make friends? 