He and She having dinner.
She: Innum konjam sadham podatumma?
He: Hmmmm
After a couple of minutes
She: What are you thinking?
He: Huh?
She: Enna yosichindu irukke?
He: Onnum illaiye
She: Samayal nanna illaiya?
He: No no. Semma tasty aa irukku
She: Edhu thayir sadham aa?
He: He he. Sambhar curry ellam nanna irundadhu
She: Seri sollu
He: Enna?
She: What were you thinking?
He: Onnum illai ma
She: Veedu eppadi katta porom nu yosikaraya?
He: No no
She: Office la edavadhu tension aa?
He: Not at all
She: Naan edavadhu sollitena?
He, on her shoulder left hand keep
He: Come on!
She: Appo ennaa think pannitu irundhe?
He: Think ellam pannalai nu solren la.
Naalaiku saloon poradha illai next week saloon kku poradha
appadinu contemplate pannindu irundhen
She: !!!!!!!
on 26 Dec 2005 at 12:14 pm # B a l a j i
Appadinna He-ku “thalaikku mela velai” irukkunu sollunga
on 26 Dec 2005 at 12:21 pm # vee-jay
idha She first time kaetta podhu solli irukkalam la - He koranji poiduvana???
btw, neenga ippadi pannittu you send funny fwds about decoding the woman’s language etc!!!
on 26 Dec 2005 at 12:55 pm # yours truly
Idhukku dhaan indha build-up-aa??
And I second vee-jay. Modhallaye solli irukkalaam.
on 26 Dec 2005 at 1:01 pm # curses
veejay n urs truly,
she yaen apadi react pannanam? yaen-na adhu matter-ae illa, adhunaala..
adhaan edhuvum illai nu He appove soleetaare!
on 26 Dec 2005 at 1:09 pm # Sri
Hmmm….Ippo ellam “HE SHEya” romba paduthararu …agree with Vee-jay,inta simple matterku Y ivlo periya build up??
Munnadi ellam HE used 2 ask SHE like ennamma yosikara,enna achu and other stuff….ippo HE romba marittaru , me donn like such HE (pazhaya HE than pidichirukku)
on 26 Dec 2005 at 3:21 pm # Neha
aamaam he romba maaritaaru…which reminds me of one sms forward
Definition of a gf: The gal who changes every character in a guy in two years n then says “nee munna madhiri illa romba maaritta”
:p
on 26 Dec 2005 at 3:28 pm # nallavan
nanna irukku !
on 26 Dec 2005 at 4:19 pm # Rubic_Cube
First time… He-She world la She aa “!!!” pannarthu paakaren. Vidhyasamana He-She… Nijammave He thinking about a Hair Cut aa? Nambara mathiri illaiye… matha per comment panna mathiri romba build up irukara mathiri irukke… Lull before the storm, eh? Rather… Lull before the Tsunami?
on 26 Dec 2005 at 9:39 pm # Whoosh
Sooper appu!!!
on 26 Dec 2005 at 11:40 pm # Sudha Narayanan
Naanga appididhaan keappoam.. neenga enna yosikkireenga nu solli dhaan aaganum..
on 27 Dec 2005 at 6:17 am # sundar
enakku therinju endha he-um idhu varaikkum mudi vetta ivvalavo yosanai panninadhu kidayadhu !!.. vera vazhi illama edho oru eli pondhula thalaiya kuththuttu varuvanga .. .. unga he is thinking like a she .. what gives..
on 27 Dec 2005 at 9:41 am # Sundaresan
she kooda pazhagi, ippo he kooda ipdi aagittaarey?
on 27 Dec 2005 at 11:06 am # Maverick
She: What were you thinking?
He: Onnum illai ma
She: Veedu eppadi katta porom nu yosikaraya?
He: No no
She: Office la edavadhu tension aa?
He: Not at all
Why he tells it: so that he can lick his wounds in private.
Sadness, depression, disillusionment. Correct me if I’m wrong, but for women, a man’s loneliness seems to offer an ideal consoling/bonding opportunity. If only men felt the same way. For us, your heartfelt concern only confirms that our personal weakness is now blatantly visible. And that’s why, when pressed by a loved one to unburden our souls, we quickly pull our heads back in our shells. Remember that, for men, to bleed is noble, to refuse an Elastoplast divine. In the psychological realm, this sometimes means lying and dissembling to avoid ‘The Dreaded Talk’. Should you ever offer a shoulder to cry on? Yes. ‘If I think there’s a solution to be found, I’m glad to talk to my wife about it,’ says Jerry, 31. ‘She’s pretty insightful. But if I can’t change the situation, for God’s sake just let me go out to the garage and bang some boards together or something.’
on 27 Dec 2005 at 1:51 pm # prabukarthik
Indhiya tholaikaatchigalil muhdal muraiyaaga….
Ferrari iyakkiya, He-She yum inaindhu naditha mudhal art padam “En kaeLvikenna badhil”
on 27 Dec 2005 at 5:04 pm # cellvi2003
Manasule yenna sujathanu ninaippa?? anyway kalakkuringa ponga…
on 27 Dec 2005 at 9:30 pm # Boo.
Mav - For us, men retreating into their shells mean “You dont trust me enough to share your troubles with me”. For women, sharing is noble and to be trusted is divine. Its not for the solution we want to talk but for the trust. If not-sharing is a crime, then lying is unforgivable. Hes pretty strong but if he cant change the situation, then for Gods sake, just say it and then go bang some boards!
No wonder they say Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Or make that 2 different galaxies just to be sure!
on 27 Dec 2005 at 11:51 pm # Rubic_Cube
Mav:
Women just love being trusted like “Boo” mentioned above. It is THE thing. Women want Men to be “sensitive” towards them. Being sensitive does not mean understanding them alone. Being sensitive also means that you should allow yourself to be vulnerable to them at times. It works like magic. Not only for you and your better-half… but also for the relationship and who knows… it may even stop you from sulking over whatever you were getting bothered with!
There are times when “banging the boards in the garage” works. And there are times when “schmoozing on wife’s shoulder” works like magic. Maybe they cant help, maybe they can. The truth is - Men would never know! I kinda discovered it by chance. But that’s the fact. We cannot seem to figure them out. Just when we think we are done, they can show up a radical new surprise. For the better or for worse, the thumb-rule is “Give them a chance all the time”. And another “pearl” of wisdom - “They want you to trust them, trust yourself to do that!”
on 28 Dec 2005 at 4:48 am # Matt
Chinna vishayatha vachindu periya kilarchiya undu panrathula, peria aalu thaai neeru ..
on 28 Dec 2005 at 1:10 pm # F e r r a r i
B a l a j i,
He he
vee-jay and yours truly,
Is it absolutely necessary to share even the trivial matters?
curses,
Adhu!
Sri,
As Neha said, He ya She maathitaa
Neha,
nallavan,
Thanks
Rubic_Cube,
Nambuda nambu!
on 28 Dec 2005 at 1:16 pm # F e r r a r i
Whoosh,
Sudha Narayanan,
Theriyume! Neenga appadinu theriyume!!
on 28 Dec 2005 at 1:21 pm # F e r r a r i
sundar and Sundaresan,
Yosikaradha dhaan veLila ella he-yum solvaana?
Maverick,
Engayo poitte da nee!
prabukarthik,
Enna sir solla vareenga?
cellvi2003,
He he
Boo and RC,
Enakku anubavam pathaadhu. Let Maverick respond to this
Matt,
on 28 Dec 2005 at 4:33 pm # prabukarthik
art padam madhiri irundhudhu nu solla varen
